Have you ever been hurt by someone? Yes, of course, you have a pulse. I think that comes with the territory.
In the midst of that pain, frustration, disappointment have you have said within their earshot (or under your breath): “I’m done with you!” Their failures now outweighing any good they had brought to your life. You comfort yourself that its the best choice. Better to cut ties than get hurt later on AGAIN. No one is going to call me a fool. I’m getting out while I can.
I’ve said that about a few people in my life. Some just a faint memory, others fresher wounds. Just this week, I uttered those words again. I’d had enough. “See ya later!” my heart declared. And that, was that.
A few days later, I’m in a worship service minding my own business. Just trying to focus on Jesus, but struggling to do so. I feel Jesus nudge my heart.
“Uh, ya? What’s up, Jesus?”
“Remember how ______ hurt you this week? How you decided you were done with them? Remember that?”
“Ya, I never do that.”
I began to remember the stupid things I had done. The times I had grieved the heart of Jesus. Some, maybe even most, of the time doing it knowing full well that I was hurting Him, but not caring cause I was gonna do what I wanted. Each time, though, He’d still be there.
I’m sure I’ll continue to hurt him from time to time. And He’ll remain the same. His steadfast love being…well….steadfast.
Today, let’s take some time to thank God that His love is nothing like mine. That His love won’t give up on you no matter how many failures, slip-ups, tantrums you throw. His love will never run out, but is continually “on tap” and accessible.
His love never fails. (1 Cor. 13:8)
5 thoughts on “I’m done with you.”
Love it, well written once again; great reminder Holly:)
So true and what a hard lesson to learn! I’ve done that with friends before and then when God confronts me with his unconditional love, He’s helped me work it out with those people and deepen our friendships. It’s so difficult but God is so faithful. Thank you for sharing !
Thanks for reading! Ya, unfortunately, in some cases I have learned this lesson too late. It’s convicting and shows me the true state of my hardened heart towards some people.
wow, you nailed me. I am going through this with someone right now. Thanks for the reminder.
Trust me– you aren’t alone. I know healthy boundaries are good and necessary. I just know in my own life, I’ve very often been quick to cut out…and I just don’t see the heart of God in that. Thanks for reading. 🙂